Kathryn Bernardo and Daniel Padilla interview about their wedding was dug up: Is it harder to get married the longer you love? Alden Richards suddenly spoke up…

Being together for a long time, sometimes even decades, and eventually having to break up is the reality of many couples.

On the evening of November 30, Khaleejtimes reported that Kathryn Bernardo and Daniel Padilla had officially broken up after 11 years together. The announcement of the separation of the Filipino “golden boy and jade girl” couple made fans feel regretful.

Kathryn Bernardo was the first to announce the end of her relationship with her long-time boyfriend. On her personal page, she posted an old photo taken when she was a teenager with Daniel Padilla, along with a long letter to her fans.

Following this news, an interview of the couple was “dug up”. In the interview, Kathryn Bernardo revealed that she was not ready for marriage. Kathryn Bernardo admitted that she did not think she would get married anytime soon with her longtime boyfriend Daniel Padilla. The reason was because they wanted to focus on immediate goals.

In May 2022, Kathryn caught the bridal bouquet at the wedding of filmmaker Cathy Garcia-Molina. Many fans also expressed their wishes that she and her boyfriend would soon get married.

The “A Very Good Girl” star also made it clear that she and Padilla have discussed marriage. They both agreed that they would do it when they were both ready. “We both know that it’s not the right time yet, and we’re both open-minded,” the Filipina beauty revealed.

But in the end, Kathryn Bernardo and Daniel Padilla officially “went their separate ways”.

From the 11-year love story and then breakup of the “golden boy and jade girl” couple in the Philippines, we can see the reality that many couples, even though they have been together for a long time, still have to break up in the end.

Below are the reasons why couples who have been in love for a long time find it difficult to have a happy ending.

1. Feeling insecure

Stemming from the gradual loss of trust in each other, many couples who have been in love for a long time fall into a state of insecurity in their own relationship. And this is also a big reason why love breaks down. The feeling of insecurity appears when on one hand you always doubt the person you love, on the other hand you always lack confidence in yourself.

In long-term love, girls are more insecure than boys. Many girls, after being in love for a long time, even though their lover has no suspicious problems, still find themselves no longer attractive in the eyes of their lover as they did in the beginning. From then on, they begin to develop the mentality that their boyfriend is bored with them. This mentality makes boys feel tired because their girlfriends constantly doubt them. Although this type of love still exists, sooner or later it will “break” because both do not have enough energy to deal with the doubts.

2. Long-standing disagreements

Reality shows that the longer couples love each other, the more conflicts and arguments arise. Because there are many things related to each other, because personal egos are increasingly revealed, because each person is increasingly bored with each other… there are countless reasons that lead to arguments. And certainly, arguing a lot cannot maintain a lasting love.

3. Too busy

Being busy with work, studying, making money… is not a bad thing, but being so busy that you have no time for your lover, that will more or less ruin your relationship. And one day, you will suddenly receive a breakup from your lover, only then will you realize that the main cause is your busyness.

4. There is a third person involved

The objective reason why long-term relationships are easily broken is the appearance of a third person. With long-distance relationships, during the love process, two people have the opportunity to meet many new people of the opposite sex, have more time with them than their partners, so they are easily attracted to a third person.

While a long-term love is becoming stale and boring, a third person with “everything new” easily has a strong attraction to you. The more you have feelings for the third person, the more bored you are with your current lover. And that love, which is already lacking vitality, has a strong external factor, so it is understandable that it will soon break up.

Psychologists advise that for couples in love, especially couples in a long-term relationship, the two of you must always maintain a regular and continuous connection, avoiding giving a third person the opportunity to replace you as the confidant of your other half. Only then will your lover not be attracted to another person.